Guys and dating games
Otome games -- visual novel dating sims where the female protagonist can romance a number of attractive men -- have become increasingly popular and available in the West.
With these games come a number of sexy, emotionally turmoiled men ready to fall over the heroine and fulfill the player's desire for a perfect and perfectly attractive boyfriend.
Behavioral extremes indicate a power play is being employed. Once we have the ability to see hot and cold for what it is, we’re less likely to suffer its negative effects.
It’s long been the rule that when dating someone whose behavior is marked by hot and cold reactivity, you’re standing on shaky ground.
, games are the last thing you need if you want to find a boyfriend or if you want to keep the one you already have.His actions are the same: “I’m not sure what I want. You want to know why a guy is giving you mixed messages? Unfortunately, for every shy gentleman and jerkass with a heart of gold there is a creepy, possessive, or sadistic love interest who can only be described as psychotic.I guess that's just some girls' thing, but the rest of us can only sit in horror as we watch our self-insert get tormented, manipulated, and worse on screen.